Dealing with Difficult People
How to Handle Shouters, Slanderers, and Non-Believers
You know the ones, the breed of individuals who, no matter what you say, will never lend an ear. They’re the folks who thrive on arguments not for enlightenment, but for the sheer thrill of shouting you down.
The people who won’t budge an inch, won’t agree with you, and, when all else fails, resort to slinging mud without a shred of proof. These are the people who believe the volume of their voice equals the strength of their argument.
You could present a Nobel-worthy thesis, but to them, it’s just background noise. They shout, drown you out, and bulldoze their way through the conversation, leaving no room for reason.
Then there are the slanderers. When their shouting game falters, they resort to slinging mud. No facts, no evidence — just baseless accusations and character assassinations. It’s like trying to have a debate with a stubborn toddler who’s discovered the power of name-calling.
I prefer to throw in an objective question to test their thinking or to see if they’ve thought through their points at all!
For example, the indictments on Trump have seen some 91 felony charges.
I simply ask why none of those charges have led to convictions?
Does Trump have the best legal team in all of the US?
Of course I am then baselessly accused of bias.
You don’t need to take sides to make a point.
But the slanderers will think you are.
They will even label you unfairly.
Instead of countering your points, they prefer to throw shade, hoping that the shadow they cast will be enough to obscure any semblance of a rational argument.
Engaging with these non-believers can be frustrating, to say the least. It’s like trying to teach a cat to do calculus — an exercise in futility. They’re not in it for the discussion; they’re in it for the chaos.
So, how do you handle these folks? First and foremost, recognise when you’re in the ring with someone who has no intention of listening. Save your energy for more constructive endeavours. Don’t waste your breath on someone who won’t appreciate the oxygen you’re sharing.
If you find yourself in the midst of a shouting match, resist the urge to shout back. Instead, maintain your cool and let the storm pass. Remember, a whisper can be more powerful than a scream if it carries wisdom.
When faced with slander, take the high road. Respond with facts and reasoned arguments. Don’t stoop to their level by slinging mud in return. Rise above the chaos, and let your integrity speak louder than their baseless accusations.
In the end, it’s essential to recognise that not everyone is open to reason and rational discourse. Some are more comfortable in the realm of chaos and noise. Save your energy for those willing to engage in meaningful conversations, and leave the shouters, slanderers, and non-believers to their own echo chambers.
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